What are the most powerful, impactful, meaningful questions you have asked/been asked?

Yesterday, I had the privilege of facilitating two workshops at the Scottish Archery and Scottish Fencing joint Coaching Conference. It was a day filled with connection, curiosity, and some truly thought-provoking discussions. My goal? To help the coaches refine their questioning and listening skills, unlocking even greater potential in themselves and their athletes.

The workshops were interactive and dynamic. Together, we explored how impactful questions and active listening can transform the way coaches engage with their athletes. It was about opening the door to deeper conversations and building stronger, more trusting relationships.

We reflected on the most powerful, impactful, or meaningful questions we’ve ever asked or been asked. Some of the standout questions included:

·      Who do you want to be?

·      Will you marry me?

·      What are your goals or expectations?

·      How are you? How are you really?

·      What are you most proud of?

·      What are you afraid of?

·      How does that make you feel?

Key to the discussion was exploring what made the questions impactful including the art of active listening—how being fully present, connecting and listening with empathy can foster trust and strengthen relationships.

Why This Matters

When coaches master the art of impactful questioning and active listening, it can transform relationships. Conversations can inspire self-reflection, and empower athletes. Whether it’s asking “What are your beliefs?” or simply taking a moment to genuinely ask, “How are you, really?” the questions we ask—and the way we listen—can encourage critical thinking, self reflection and problem solving creating a lasting impact.

Let’s Connect

This session was just the beginning of a larger conversation about connection, communication, and growth. If this resonates with you, We’d love to hear your thoughts. What’s the most powerful question you’ve ever been asked?

Reach out to connect—I’d love to hear your story.

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